Bethany & Fabian

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Our story

A match, a few rainouts, and a first date that started with a misunderstanding.

How it started

We matched in the summer of 2025 [on which app?] and got rained out more than once before we finally met. On our first date, Fabian stood up in the middle of a conversation about personality types and said “ENFP.” Bethany was sure he’d said “I need to pee.” We still laugh about it.

A week later Bethany was telling her friends it felt easy, and special. On August 7, 2025 she said “I love you” first. By September she’d made it official: “I choose you. I’m all in.”

Brazil

That Christmas, Fabian took Bethany home to Brazil. She met the whole family on Christmas Day, and the verdict was unanimous: they approve. Sitting in the sun a few days earlier, she texted him: “Thank you for bringing me here and showing me your world.” Before the trip was over she was already looking up boat days to Ilha Grande.

The proposal

In August 2026, [where and how Fabian proposed]. She said yes.

Why Rio

Because it’s where our two worlds meet, and we want to share it with the people we love. Come for the wedding, stay for the week, and let Rio do the rest.

Our first dance

On our fifth date, we shared our very first dance, to Cody Johnson's “Dance Her Home.”

After a date night, Bethany decided it was time Fabian learned the two-step, so she taught him right there in her kitchen. He caught on in just a few songs, and that's when she knew he was the one. This is the video we took that night, right after he nailed it.

Sunset swim at Ipanema
Sunset swim at Ipanema
Ipanema at sunset
Ipanema at sunset
Beach day in BĂşzios
Beach day in BĂşzios
New Year’s Eve above the bay
New Year’s Eve above the bay
Brazil, December 2025
Brazil, December 2025
Dois IrmĂŁos behind us
Dois IrmĂŁos behind us
Réveillon in white
Réveillon in white
She said yes, August 2026
She said yes, August 2026
Celebrating, August 2026
Celebrating, August 2026